About living-in with 24/7 total power exchange
Tea-time
Regular married life - hubby is at work - he usually gets home around 7 so I aim to make tea for 7.15 - 7.30
I decide to visit my mother in the afternoon - get chatting, don't notice the time, get stuck in traffic
Arrive home and hubby's back before me - say "oops sorry, popped over to mums and lost track of the time - dinner soon-ish" and he says ok and sits and watches telly for a bit
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M/s life - Master always wants his tea within an hour of arriving home. I want to visit my mum and I ask if that's ok just in case there is something that he had wanted me to do that afternoon. He says I can visit mum.
A) I lose track of time, get stuck in traffic, I get home and Master is back and there is no way I will make tea within the hour. He is annoyed, says I should keep better watch on time etc. Gets huffy and says that tomorrow I have to clean the kitchen top to bottom including inside cupboards and oven with consequences if he finds fault
B) I lose track of time - I telephone him in advance and apologise that I look as if I will be late. He says that he understands but expects me to keep better control of my time in future and will not expect to have this happen again
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Note how the M/s are just as rational and adult as regular married life but with lines and protocols.
There is no naked sub chained to the sink, there is no "where is my tea bitch!! - these sausages are over done - 100 lashed for you tonight!!" - just a perfectly normal life but with the protocol of power exchange.
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Two thoughts added to this by others
From Fulham - "but surely if they want to live with the sub naked and in chains that is valid too"
I guess so but I just wanted to illustrate that M/s can be lived in a "normal" way
From Master - "a good sub would have thought ahead and picked up a take-away on the way home if she knew she couldn't prepare a meal by the allotted time"
Sure, but then you risk the sub thinking "oh well, no rush, will pick up a take-away on my way home" as a regular habit rather than a one-off contingency plan. ;-)
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©2004 M
