Submission from the psychologically weak,
or those who really don't believe in themselves,
is rarely real or longterm, its a form of comfort
Collars and Submission
Submissive vs Doormat
There is such a fine line here that it has to be trodden carefully.
What my sub *needs* is for me to be in control.
If I pander to his lesser needs, I don't fulfil the main one.